Family Program

Family counseling is a component of the treatment process at our center. We help family members understand addiction and how to behave in order to help their loved one recover.

At Sober Living by the Sea, we take the opportunity to create an experience that is both educational and positive. Our family program is truly for the family and loved ones of the alcoholic or addict. We take the time to educate the family about issues like “enabling” and how to react when the loved one is dishonest or in denial. Our state-of-the-art family program also helps families understand the importance of getting help for themselves.

Here is the schedule:

WEDNESDAY
8:30 am Continental Breakfast – Family Program Facility
9:00-10:30 The Disease Model of Addiction
10:30-10:45 Break
10:45-12:00 The First Year of Recovery
12:00-12:45 Lunch – Provided at Family Program Facility
12:45-1:15 Introduction and Continuing Care Presentation
1:15-1:35 Experience Recovery
1:45-3:30 Boundary Setting
7:30 Al-Anon Meeting at the Main Center
THURSDAY
8:30 am Continental Breakfast at Family Program Facility
9:00-10:15 Powerlessness
10:15-10:30 Break
10:30-11:15 Powerlessness
11:15-12:00 Nutrition in Recovery
12:00-12:45 Lunch with Clients and their Families
12:45-330 Multi family Group
12:45-330 Appointments with case managers, relaxation, dinner on your own
Suggested 12-Step Meetings
Suggested 12-Step  Meetings
6:30pm Al-Anon –  Corona Del Mar Community Church
611 Heliotrope
(12 x 12 Step Study)
7:30pm AA Balboa Speaker Meeting
414 E. 32nd St., Newport Beach, 92663
FRIDAY
8:30 AM Continental Breakfast at Family Program Facility
9:00-11:30 Questions
11:30 Closing Knot of Love

We hope that everyone takes the opportunity to grow with us and to have an experience that will truly bring your family together.

More Facts about the Damage Addiction Can Cause to the Family

Alarming national statistics indicate that the entire family often suffers when one member is addicted to drugs or alcohol:

  • More than half of all spouse and child abuse is directly tied to alcohol and drug abuse.
  • Alcohol and drug-addicted persons are seven times more likely to divorce.
  • More than 4 million women in this country, many of whom are mothers, abuse drugs.
  • More than half of all traffic fatalities are related to alcohol and other forms of drug abuse.
  • Non-alcoholic members of alcoholic families take considerably more sick leave than members of families in which alcoholism is not present.
  • Alcohol is implicated in 25 to 50 percent of cases of maltreatment of women, and in 20 percent of cases of maltreatment of children.
  • An estimated 6.6 million children under the age of 18 live in households with at least one alcoholic parent.

Sadly, even if the substance abuser is able to keep up appearances to the outside world, family life often becomes intolerable for his/her loved ones. Yet they may try to cover up what is really happening because it’s just too painful to admit their family is being torn apart by something they cannot control.

Desperate for change, family members may try to control events involving the substance abuser or his/her behavior. They may hide or throw out alcohol or drugs. They may repeatedly scold the addict or try to shame him/her into promising to never use again. They may call in sick for the chemically dependent person or lie to ensure the outside world doesn’t find out the truth. Often, families become drawn into the substance abuser’s sickness; they become co-dependent while trying desperately to make family life seem “normal.”

Unfortunately, ignoring the problem or helping to cover things up isn’t helping anyone. It certainly isn’t helping children who may be living in the home. While they may seem oblivious to daddy or mommy’s substance abuse, they are most certainly being affected – and not just temporarily.

If your family is being affected by drug or alcohol abuse, don’t give up hope. It is statistically proven that when family, friends, or co-workers come together to help the chemically dependent person face his/her addiction and realize the damage he/she is causing to loved ones, that person agrees to enter treatment more than 90 percent of the time.

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